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Design Destinations! Resolutions That Work
Volume IV Issue I - January 2007

Dear Melissa,

A NEW YEAR and a new start! So why do I already feel like I am behind. Yes, most of us do tend to tackle too much at the start of any New Year. We make an endless list of resolutions only to find them going by the wayside within the first thirty days. So, to help myself and you all, I have written a few tips on how to make your resolutions truly effective and a success rather than something that simply gets recycled year to year. Share your success stories!

“The difference between an ordinary income and an extraordinary income is implementation of excellence and education.” MG Do you ever find that it is easy and even fun to continually educate ourselves on the newest, latest, and greatest technology, marketing techniques, branding tricks and much more . . . and yet, we never implement. Well last year was my last luxury year of education without implementation. Now it is time to put the technology to the test, the techniques to the challenge, and the tricks to the trade. 2007 is my year to implement and finesse, to put to use all those wonderful gadgets and gizmos I’ve heard and read about that are designed to simplify and streamline my life. This is my year to initiate all the new methods and a bit of madness destined to change my practice and my preaching! Stay tuned for more.

Old Dog and New Tricks! It is true, I have finally joined the rest of the tuned in and turned on universe with the gift, from a friend, of an IPOD this holiday season. I am still learning how to load it, which may amuse many of you, no doubt! I also received a very cool digital picture frame but have yet to get the lessons on that one. Next is a PDA of some sort. I know, I know, I’ve been in the dark ages. I just don’t believe in being connected 24/7 but instead deciding when I want to connect and with whom! I still want to be the master of my choices rather than at the world’s beck and call. Is that even a possibility? So what are your recommendations, keep in mind I am VERIZON based and not likely to change, my coverage surpasses anyone else that I know of.

Live well and beautifully,

MG



Life by Design: Resolutions That Work!

Be concise and concrete! This means that to really have a resolution work it needs to be easily measured and tracked. So if you want to lose 20 pounds, just saying you want to lose it in the next three months isn’t going to do it. If instead, you state clearly that you will lose it by adding 30 minutes of daily exercise, and cutting out sugar and white flour products, and you will meet your ideal weight on March 30, 2007 at 9am, you are infinitely more likely to get there.

Keep it real and attainable! If you resolve to make $250,000 this year and last year you made less than $100,000 you may want to reexamine your goal. While it is by no means out of the question, it may be more realistic to plan to double your current income and create the plan and dates to do so. When I began in business in 1994, my income doubled every year for the first five years. This meant hard work, long hours, and dedication. It won’t happen without it.

Remind yourself daily! Write down your resolutions on index cards and read them aloud at least three times each morning and three times each night. This means you may want to also consider a reasonable number of resolutions. Consider no more than two in any specific life area: health and well being, career, relationships, travel and adventure, homemaking and entertaining, interior design (home and office), and personal image and style. A long list doesn’t make it easier to get done, it just makes it overwhelming.

Find an accountability partner! Share your sought after experiences and resolutions with a friend or co-worker. Agree to talk once a week and report on your progress, discuss roadblocks and get the support you need to stay on the path to success. Too often we allow ourselves to slide, but when someone else is holding us to our word, we stick to it more effectively.

Make the experience count! One of the biggest reasons I choose the word experience instead of goal is because when someone doesn’t achieve a goal they suffer a sense of failure and miss the point of what they experienced. We often learn more from the journey than reaching some destination. By framing your goals as experiences, it is always a win and you can focus on the path getting there rather than simply the brass ring at the end.

Make 2007 your year!

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Upcoming Travel and Adventure: West Coast for Dreaming

It is 6am as I write this. I have been up for an hour getting critical loose ends wrapped up before I head to the West Coast for a week of Marcia Weider’s Dream Coach University. I have been coaching unofficially for years and am increasingly aware of the need for such services particularly in the design and home furnishings industry. I attended Marcia’s Create Your Future Now workshop last Spring and signed on board. The program is certified and my website for coaching is in the works! I am excited about being able to work with designers and others in our trade to design their business for success and the their lives for joyous living.


Latest Presentation: Keller Williams ALC Retreat
 

Last week I did a workshop for Keller Williams’s Agent Leadership Council Retreat. The event was held at Cheaha State Park in Alabama, in fact the highest point in Alabama. I am betting it is quite beautiful in the warmer months, we got fog and sleet! It was a great group, very involved and interested and they made terrific progress with establishing not only individual goals (or experiences as I like to refer to them), but also as teams.

I now enjoy Preferred Vendor Status with several offices both here in Atlanta and in Birmingham, and look forward to being of continued service in working with the agents to realize their dreams, and deliver more of the American Dream to their clients!



Designer Movie Reviews

"The Black Dahlia" - Josh Hartnett, Scarlett Johansson, Aaron Eckhart, Hilary Swank
1 Stars

I actually turned this off about 2/3 of the way through. The sets and costumes were rich but the story line was pathetically tragic. Alone Eckhart is a true talent, Swank is one of the finest, and Johansson has promise, but Hartnett is way out of his league. I couldn’t follow this at all, and lost interest quickly, the star given is obligatory. Entirely missable even for home viewing.



"Notes from a Scandal" - Judi Dench, Bill Nighy, Cate Blanchett
4 Stars

One woman’s secret is another woman’s opportunity, how true. Dench is frighteningly brilliant in this, calculating, resourceful, conniving, and desperate in every sense. She is destined to win at any cost and feared enough never to be stopped. Blanchett is tragically pathetic, yet winsome, and truly likeable (essential for a heroine), Nighy is the perfect choice for her husband. He seems almost famous, very artsy, yet with an amazing capacity for heart and truth. I knew early on the challenges that lay ahead with the wanderings of a young teacher (Blanchett) with a host of hot blooded and even hotter headed young lads. There is something devilishly attractive about alleged innocence coupled with false bravado. Beware those you share your secrets with, it gives them so much power . . .


In this issue...
  • Life by Design: Resolutions That Work!
  • Upcoming Travel and Adventure: West Coast for Dreaming
  • Latest Presentation: Keller Williams ALC Retreat
  • Words To Live By

  • Featured Blogs

    Decadent Design Trends

    Detailed Decorating Tips for Free

    Terrific Travels by Design

    Brilliant Book Reviews

    Marvelous Movie Reviews

    Rave Restaurant Reviews

    Action and Adventures from My Life

     

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    Words To Live By

    "Take a chance! All life is a chance. The person who goes the furthest is generally the one who is willing to do and dare."

    - Dale Carnegie


    "The minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than you settled for."

    - Maureen Dowd
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    Imagination encircles the world."

    - Albert Einstein











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